One More Final Post on Sexual Conversion:
I appreciate Eugene's reply, but I wonder if we're just left with a question of definitions. In the past, when I have heard the claim that "gays and lesbians are trying to convert others to homosexuality," I did not understand it to mean the narrow claim that Eugene is making. "Conversion" was depicted as something sinister and unusual, generally associated with the homophobic stereotype of gays as sexual predators. Those who have responded by calling such claims a "myth" were not taking the position directly implicated by the point Eugene makes; rather, I understood them to be arguing that the homophobic stereotypes were a "myth." If I'm right, Eugene's position is that the homophobic stereotypes are in fact a myth, but that it is possible to come up with an alternative meaning of the claim that so-defined might not be a myth. Whether that is true, it seems like a question of definitions more than substantive disagreement.
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When people respond that this is myth, presumably they are responding to the claim, as it is understood by those making it. Thus, it seems to me that Eugene's point is a response to this response, saying that though you may argue about the negative nature of converting others to homosexuality (that those who make the claim that "gays and lesbians are trying to convert others to homosexuality often believe is true," it seems to be the case that for the most part they are right that such attempts at conversion occur.
For those who mean something sinister and predatory by the initial claim, the rejection that that is a myth still stands.
Eugene hasn't really responded to (2) at all. On the other hand, (1) has been the subject of much discussion, so I leave you with this, the lighter and literary side:
Conversion:
Persuasion:
There is a difference...
Here are some examples:
"When a wide-eyed homosexual spreads his hands and pleads that he just wants to be left alone to live like other people, don't believe it. He has a hidden agenda. A breathtaking majority of sodomites and lesbians are dedicated to perverting as many people as possible. Their target is the young."
http://www.bible-infonet.org/bin/feature_articles/
living/homosexuality.htm
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The Tradial Values Colation
"As GLSEN continues to recruit children into homosexuality and gender confusion, we can expect to see rising levels of oral and anal cancers among teenagers. Is this really what parents want for their children?"
http://www.traditionalvalues.org/modules.php?sid=1587
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"Larry Spencer, the Canadian Alliance Party’s critic for family issues, in an interview with the Vancouver Sun said gay activists embarked on a “well-orchestrated” campaign to “convert” young boys in school playgrounds and locker rooms to homosexuality and to “deliberately infiltrate the North America’s judiciary, schools, religious community and the entertainment industry."
http://www.sodomylaws.org/world/canada/canews017.htm
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Family Research Institute:
Those who engage in homosexuality also:
"• frequently seek to ‘convert' others, particularly the young, to their sexual tastes" (also: more frequently engage in odd sex practices (e.g., sadomasochism, anal-oral sex)
http://www.familyresearchinst.org/FRR_04_07.html
Given that world view, gays would have no interest in converting straights - it would be as ridiculous as trying to convert an white man to being black. Perhaps in theory gays would not oppose bisexuals from experimenting but to think that they really have an orchestrated campaign to make straight people gay is absurd.
A little honesty is called for here. Eugene's position isn't that the Christian position is correct, but simply that the counter-myth isn't right either. The problem is that most of the people in this thread are taking the implausible position that homosexuals, unlike just about every other type of human on the planet, have zero interest in other people being more like them.
1) Gays and lesbians want to reduce the social stigma surrounding homosexuality and allow people with homosexual inclinations to express them freely.
2) If gays and lesbians succeed in reducing the social stigma towards homosexuality, it is likely that some people who have never had same-sex relations, but have always had some degree of same-sex desire or orientation, will, in Prof. Volokh’s words, “experiment” with same-sex relationships. Professor Volokh is specifically thinking of people with a bisexual orientation as falling in this category, but presumably it would also include those who are exclusively sexually oriented to the same-sex but who nonetheless sublimate that desire into conventional opposite-sex relations.
3) Gays and lesbians actually intend and desire the foreseeable result set out in #2.
4) Therefore gays and lesbians can be said to want to “convert” heterosexuals.
From the comments of those posting, it seems almost everyone can agree on propositions #1 and #2 (although some folks question the existence of true bisexuality), but many (including Prof. Kerr in his first “last thought”) have problems with #3, and almost everyone has problems with #4.
I’d like to suggest that Prof. Volokh is probably right about proposition #3, at least if its slightly reframed. It seems to me an unremarkable statement to say that gays and lesbians desire and indeed are actively working toward a world where more people have homosexual relationships. Specifically, I think it's both unremarkable and unobjectionable to say gays and lesbians would like to achieve a world where closeted homosexuals who now have only opposite sex relations or no sex at all would feel comfortable enough with themselves to express their sexuality. I also agree with Prof. Volokh that most gays and lesbians would probably like to achieve a world where closeted bisexuals, who now only have sexual relations with members of the opposite sex, would be free to express their sexuality by having same-sex relations if that’s what they choose to do. Encouraging closeted people to express their true sexuality seems to me a fundamental message behind every Gay Pride rally, PFLAG meeting and Queer as Folk episode.
The real problem, as I’m sure it will be tediously obvious to anyone who’s read this far, is with Volokh’s proposition #4. As Prof. Kerr has suggested, this largely turns on a semantic question of how one defines “convert,” but I disagree with Prof. Kerr that this is just an uninteresting question of definitions. Prof. Volokh, if I understand him correctly, is saying that when gays and lesbians encourage closeted homosexuals and bisexuals to express their sexuality, they can legitimately be said to be seeking to “convert” them from heterosexuality. As several commentators have pointed out, this doesn’t really make any sense under any ordinary definition of “convert.” Encouraging a closeted homosexual to express his or her homosexuality or a closeted bisexual his or her bisexuality may cause them to have more same sex relations and fewer opposite sex relations, but it doesn’t “convert” them to something they weren’t already.
And I think here is where we get to the root of the problem with Prof. Volokh’s argument. Prof. Volokh wants to ground his argument in the modern scientific understanding of sexuality – that sexual orientation is at least primarily innate and that some people are exclusively heterosexual in orientation, some exclusively homosexual, and some oriented bisexually. But, once he accepts this, he can’t really convincingly argue that gays and lesbians want to “convert” anyone from one category to another. Even in his own examples, all gays and lesbians are trying to achieve is for homosexuals and bisexuals to have the sexual experiences that their innate orientation would lead them to have.
Of course, most people who propound the “conversion myth” don’t share Prof. Volokh’s problem. They for the most part reject the idea that some people are inherently homosexual or bisexual and conceive of humanity as heterosexual in its very essence. In that world view, one might be able to say that persuading someone to come out of the closet is “converting” them to homosexuality. But you can’t say it while accepting the modern liberal (small l) and scientific consensus on the nature of human sexuality. In other words, you can’t say it (at least convincingly) when you’re Prof. Volokh.
There is no credible historical evidence that "real homosexuals" -- that is folks with a primary or exclusive same-sex orientation who desired lifelong predominant or exclusive homosexual relationships -- existed in any greater percentages in Ancient Greek and Roman societies than they do today. There is no evidence that real homosexuals were any more than 2-3% of overall society.
The overwhelming majority of those engaging in homosexual acts had a primary heterosexual orientation, engaged in the behavior ritualistically (that is as customs in which they were expected to go through) for some period of time in their lives, and then went on to get married to women and sire families.