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That is the beginning and then end of the argument.
Consider what just happened in Massachusetts -- the Roman Catholic Church was forced to close its adoption agency because it could not, in light of its faith, comply with the State's commandment that it not discriminate against homosexual couples. Now you obviously think that the State acted properly, but I don't see how you can say that the State's action did not infringe on the religious liberty of the Church.
I am sure there are other incidents of marriage, besides adoption, that present similar conflicts. Pretending that they don't exist is not the way to win hearts and minds on this.
Thank you, Jason Fliegel, for the positive tone.
There might be a word for that you described? Evolution
"the Roman Catholic Church was forced to close its adoption agency..."
No. The Roman Catholic Church "CHOSE" to close its adoption agency rather than comply with state law.
As a gay Catholic, (yes, we are here), with no rights in our religion, we will turn to the secular laws of America for legitimacy when are families and communities scoff t the validity of our committments.
Thank God we have a general policy of not letting religion dictation state action, nor state action dictate religion. It was a CHOICE Catholic Charities made -- to honor religious dictates in light of state law. They absolutely have the right to do that, as gay people absolutely will gain the rights NOT to be treated as a special class of citizens. Amen.
"when our families and communities scoff at the validity of our commitments."
I really like this line...
Could such a religion survive in this country? Would its marriages be respected by the states (and would the federal government protect such rights under the 14th amendment).
Many conservative Episcopalians adhere to a Nigerian Bishop who want to imprison gay people. I have never heard of gay people trying to imprison conservative Episcopalians.
If the Catholic Church wants to treat gay people as "inherently disordered," why is it wrong for gay people to treat anti-gay people as "inherently disordered"? Maybe "homophobia" should be treated as a mental illness. Parents with it should be denied custody. People who have it should be jailed.
I'm half-jesting. Religious liberty is the only serious argument against gay marriage. It is difficult to tolerate both the anti-gay and gay sides. But we've forced the gays to change and hide themselves for decades. We've also denied health insurance to children of gay parents just because they're gay.
We've put the burden on gay people for long enough. It's time to try another way to see whose predictions come true. If some burden falls on right-wing religious practitioners, well, it's may just be their turn.
We pro-gay rights folks promise to treat you anti-gay people at least as well as you have treated gay people. Enjoy. And remember, you're always free to change your lifestyle choice.
If the case of Catholic Charities in Massachusetts is repeated, I predict significant withdrawal of religious organizations providing services in those arenas regulated by the government. And I don't see religious organizations altering their beliefs merely because of governmental requirements.
If you tell someone "if you do X, then you are restricted by Y", that is a restriction promulgated by you. Just because the other party could choose not to incur Y by not doing X doesn't mean that Y is a result of their actions rather than yours.
Otherwise you could charge a church a million dollars for having Mass, and then claim "oh, it was their choice to be charged a million" since they could have avoided the charge by not having Mass. It was their choice to pick one of the options, but if you hadn't put the options there, forcing the choice, they wouldn't have to make it.
How do you define matters of conscience legally? I was under the impression Americans had the right to belief, but not action. I'd argue, religious bodies have the right to conscience. Yet, conscience means, awareness of moral obligation. It doesn't imply the right to act with moral obligation.
What if religious organizations moved to decrease women in the work force? How would the decision impact American's creativity, when our future economy depends on creativity? Sometimes, Americans forget the economic benefit of diverse thought.
Steven Neff
University of Michigan
Kindly explain how any efforts at racial desegregation conflicted with anyone's religious liberty. (Bonus points if you can incorporate a rebuttal of this (pretty on-point) authority on the subject: "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free person, there is not male and female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Galatians 3:28 (NAB))
Please also explain why many of the same African-American churches who shouldered much of the burden of the civil rights movement in the 1960's are also among today's most vehement opponents of gay marriage.
Sorry for the repetition but it seems required. This matter is SO clear cut and simple if looked at with even a modicum of reason. Yet, here we are still talking about it.
I give a pass to the true libertarians who oppose governement discrimination against gays but who also oppose anti-discrimination laws imposed on the private sector.
But the current system disciminates against pro-gay-rights religion. For example, a reform Rabbi does not have the legal right to perform a marriage that he thinks is perfectly supported by Jewish law. He's bound by the politically conservative Christian rule that only a man and a woman can be married.
Anti-gay-discrimination laws will be generally applicable laws aimed at helping gays. They are no more burdensome on conservative Christians than the drug laws are on some Native American Faiths.
'no discriminating against gay people' seems like an unproblematic general rule to me. laws against homicide infringe against the religious liberty of those who want to engage in human sacrifice too.
Isn't this common in law? The 21-year-old drinking age in all states, for example.
Or the recent argument that universities could uphold their strong beliefs regarding permitting job recruiters who discriminate on campus via the Solomon Amendment -- just don't take the federal money. Their hands were kind of "forced" too.
A difference between the example posed of charging a church $1 million to hold a mass has no sound basis. Requiring equality for homosexuals under state law does have a sound basis. It just happens to conflict with this sect's religious teaching, but is not a law whose underlying basis is just harassing the church out of business.
It makes sense to me.
Also, if they were willing, I believe Catholic Charities could have gotten creative, and somehow worked within state law, and still accommodated their religious teachings. Not exactly sure what creative solution this would take (working together with another adoption agency perhaps, that did allow adoptions, for non-Catholics who just happen to be using Catholic Charity adoption services, but where the mother is not a Catholic herself and would not object to placement of her child, via the other non-Catholic agency, in a healthy environment with two same-sex parents? Like a referral out?) but otherwise it seems to me you are letting religion dictate state law.
Sure he does. Some churches and synagogues currently perform same-sex ceremonies, and not just in Massachusetts. All that the "current system" does is prevent governmental recognition of such marriages.
Bob Jones University lost its tax-exempt status because of its belief that God forbids interracial relationships.
And how about all those southern white people who believed that racial segregation (and, before that, slavery) was God's will? The Old Testament certainly had no problem with the slave-owning patriarchs. There was even a justification for race-based slavery: according to the Bible, one of the things Noah did after the flood was plant a vineyard, make wine, get drunk, and pass out naked in his tent. His son Ham looked in, saw this, and went to tell his brothers, Shem and Japheth, who took in a blanket to cover him. When Noah came to, he cursed Ham and all his descendents, saying that they would be servants to the descendents of the good brothers. Since it was believed that Ham's children settled Africa, Shem's settled the Middle East, and Japheth's settled Europe, keeping black people enslaved was therefore entirely consistent with the Bible.
Isn't this common in law? The 21-year-old drinking age in all states, for example.
Not sure what your point is. I would certainly characterize the 21 year old drinking age as something which has been forced on the states by the government and would not claim that the states' decisions to have a 21 year old drinking age are voluntary in any meaningful sense.
Why does religious liberty require tax-free status? When I get to be civil king I will declare "I do not know the meaning of the word 'religion' and thus I will be taxing all charitable and social organizations identically, regardless of whether they claim to be 'religious'."
catholic charities could also have kept to their prior practice and kept letting gay couples adopt. they only discovered this so-called principle of religious conscience after mass. adopted ssm.
Good point. Catholic Charities had been helping kids escape the foster system and move to the security of stable homes with gay parents. It wasn't until after SSM that they chose to change their position.
It's funny how some people think that gays have a choice but the Archbishop of Boston does not.
The reality is that SSM would make it harder for some people to practice their faith. But I think it's more important for kids of gay parents to get the protection of marriage.
Prior to desegregation, there were many churches who held that the races should be separate, and that desegregation was against God's will. Likewise, people supported slavery by pointing to the Bible. Oppression of women has been (and continues to be, in some cases) supported by citations to religious beliefs. And so on.
It's not about rebutting or citing to Galatians. To the contrary, trying to rebut or rely upon Galatians is exactly the wrong road for the government to go down. Everyone who considers Galatians part of his or her religious heritage must decide for him or herself what Galatians means (perhaps with the help of his priest or pastor). The government should not take a position on Galatians or any other passage from the Bible, the Koran, the Vedas, or any other scripture. It is up to the believers to decide what they mean. The government should stay out of that discussion.
The government should not, however, stay out of the discussion regarding what rights gay people have in our civil society any more than it would have been appropriate for the government to stay out of the discussion regarding what rights black people have in our civil society.
It's been one of the tragic consequences of the whole "seperation of church and state" lemma that no one can tell the difference between a genuine religious belief and bigotry in religion's clothing. (People who actually DO understand the Bible will recognize that nowhere is interracial marriage prohibited. Interreligious marriage is another matter, but back on topic...)
It seems to be an article of faith here (pun intended) that religion, when it comes to the law, is a "black box" where all doctrines are randomly generated and equally valued (i.e. they have no value whatsoever), so that a prohibition on homosexual conduct is treated the same as a prohibition on interracial marriage is treated the same as a rule that no one shall wear hats on alternate Wednesdays in May. Rather than being accorded even a basic minimum of respect, all religious belief in conflict with the directives of the Almighty state is treated as equally invalid, and the baby is thrown out with the bathwater, irrespective of how strongly supported the doctrine may be or how long of a record of practice it has.
Kinda like how a lot of modern law is made. :\
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Of course it will, just as it does with everything else.
Religious Liberty is limitable in two senses:
1. To the extent it conflicts with fundamental government interests,
e.g., no peyote smoking regardless of how much a part it might be a groups core religious practices; or no child marriages;
2. To the extent it conflicts with others' religious beliefs,
e.g., what of the religious beliefs of religious organizations that accept same-sex couples?
Since such conflict is inevitable, our system requires government to remain as neutral as practical in balancing different beliefs. It is, ironically, precisely on this basis that some believe government should not restrict same-sex marriage. The interest of a couple to practice their own beliefs, including an acceptance of such marriages, outweighs a "negative" interest for other parties to exist free of the existence of such marriages ABSENT the presence of a compelling governmental interest to the contrary (which is the point that seems to be difficult for such opponents to articulate).
Houston Lawyer: You said this same thing in another thread--and it's the one argument that NO ONE on either side of this debate takes seriously. Catholic churches are free not to marry divorcees, since it goes against thair doctrine. Churches are free not to perform inter-faith or interracial marriages, if they feel it offends their doctrine. If we've been able to navigate these distinctions for decades, same-sex marriage isn't about to change that.
Once you get away from the marriage ceremony itself, however, it gets trickier: The church offers health insurance to certain full-time staff, including the paster, the organist, and some of the maintenance staff. The organist marries a partner of the same sex. Does the church fire him? Refuse to insure his partner? Would either of these open them to a lawsuit?
A Catholic church refuses to perform wedding ceremonies for divercees remarrying other partners or for same-sex couples. However, in the church register, they are willing to list and show in a single photo the remarried divorcees and their children from both marriages as a single family but force the same-sex couple to appear as two single people. Would anti-discrimination laws be applicable here?
And then there are the issues faced by non-church religiously affiliated organizations offering services to the public at large, whether they adhere to the faith of the sponsoring organization (hospitals, day-care centers, etc.).
People writing about this topic always mention Catholic Charities, but, as noted above, that situation doesn't make for a very strong case, since Catholic Charities had in previous years quite happily from time to time put children into homes headed by same-sex parents, and the leaders of that organization wished to continue to do so, and several of them resigned rather than follow the Archibishop's sudden dictum (which had far more to do with church politics surrounding the new pope than anything happening in Massachusetts).
That said, I agree with Public Defender: The burden that same-sex marriage would put on some churches to find ways to accommodate same-sex married couples in providing services is no greater than the burden currently on churches (e.g., MCC) whose doctrines would encourage them to perform marriages for same-sex couples that are equal in every way to mixed-sex marriages, including being legally binding, but are prevented by law from doing so.
Why don't we also give gay couples who marry tax-exempt status, just like religious organizations? Then, in any litigation between them, whoever loses also loses the tax-exempt status. That should put a damper on some of these frisky lawsuits everyone imagines.
Of course, we could shorten the process by just removing tax-exempt status from religious organizations. Then that burden is off their backs, and all they have to worry about is complying with the law (even the laws they don't like because they are contrary to the Old Testament, New Testament, Koran, Book of Mormon, Wiccan First Principles, tea leaves, or whatever else they consider authoritative), which is all they have to worry about now.
Or, we could leave everything as it is now, and simply continue to tell religious organizations, "You know, we don't consult with you and the holy books about race discrimination, national defense, the speed limit, social security, proper levels of welfare or veterans benefits, how women are free to dress in the workplace, OSHA regulations, or anything else. Add this to the list. Have a nice day!"
So, please go right ahead...
Yep. Conservative Christianity can and should have the same standing before the law as more liberal Christianity, Catholicism, Paganism, Reform Judaism, Santeria, Native American faiths, etc., etc., etc.
Poltically conservative Christians ain't special in the eyes of the law.
When it comes to providing public funds to a religious institution to provide a public service, why not?
1. Courts apply the rational basis and/or strict scrutiny tests to all kinds of public policy, no matter what its inspiration, divine or otherwise.
2. It actually isn't all that difficult to tell true religious belief from bigotry cloaked by religion. No one could possibly confuse Osama Bin Laden or Fred Phelps with John Paul II or the Dalai Llama.
3. It might be philosophically messier that just simply telling charities "our way or the highway," but IMO societies are better served by having more institutions, especially religious ones, provide public services (at least of the kind that require a monopoly).
You've got to be kidding. People confuse Dr. Laura Schlessinger with Osama Bin Laden or Fred Phelps all the time. People confuse Bush and Hitler. People confuse Gore and Goebbels. People confuse Tawana Brawley with a rape victim. Ann Coulter confuses widows and witches.
The phrase "No one could possibly confuse" is generally false, no matter what follows it. Bet on confusion. Rely on confusion. Live confused, as I do!
Yours,
Wince
And the idea that religious liberty and gay marriage won't collide is absurd. What about marriage counseling? Such services are licensed by the state. Will it be ok for churches to agree to only counsel straight couples? Not if some of the more strident on this thread get their way. The Church will be told to serve all couples (stop discriminating against gays) or stop providing the service. Isn't the Church being told at that point either to abandon what it considers an essential part of its ministry (counseling couples) or to consider as "married" couples that their faith tells them are not?
Then how is it that we managed to avoid it until recently. Must have been a pretty powerful unserious argument. Even cultures like Attic Greece that accepted homosexuality didn't practice SSM. They must have seen an argument against it.
I agree with your argument, but I would add there is nothing inherently wrong with infringing on religious liberty when religion enters the public square. Otherwise, every public policy that conflicted with any religious teaching would have to be rejected. This issue is a red herring.
The concept of being gay (as opposed to merely having gay sex) is new. Until the concept of gay identity was developed, same-sex marriage made little sense.
In this case, Religious Liberty is an important bulwark against the manifest stupidity of gay marriage. Gay Marriage is destructive to the State, both in theory, and, as we can see from Europe, in practice. To prefer one thing over another in law is not discriminatory when there are non-discriminatory reasons to do so.
The Catholic Church in Mass. favors putting children in families with both mothers and fathers because--- amazingly enough--- they believe that children do better when they have both a Mother and a Father. This entirely reasonable belief is now equated with anti-miscegnation laws by fools who can't see beyond themselves.
There are actual gay couples out there--some raising children. Denying them marriage doesn't make them go away or make them invisible. It just denies them and their children some legal and financial stability. What theory could possibly suggest that allowing and indeed encouraging them to marry is more destructive than having them continue to show that marriage is only one option, that many of them can, despite legal hobbling, survive and thrive and successfully raise kids while "shacked up"?
And Eskridge and Spedale have dismantled those specious arguments that legalized same-sex marriage has been bad for Europe, showing, among other things, that the explosive growth in unwed births before same-sex marriage was instituted has slowed since then.
The Catholic Church decided it was better to allow kids to bounce around in the foster system or end up with single parents than be placed with a couple that happened to be same sex. THAT is the truly idiotic choice: Putting ideology before the welfare of real children.
Every study has shown that children of gay parents, whether natural or adoptive, have done at least as well developmentally as those with opposite sex parents. No study has concluded otherwise.
And just as not every gay person makes the ideal parent, neither does every straight person - and vice versa. Every adoption agency agrees that it is actually better to put a child in a good household of loving gay parents than to put one in a bad household of straight parents. I recall the minister from Indiana who fought a gay couple's adoption of a child and took the little girl himself, and later authorities found that he was sexually abusing this girl.
As for Europe, the only person who has made the claim that Europe is worse off for gay marriage is Stanley Kurtz. When his analysis was challenged, he finally admited that the current trends of divorce and out of wedlock births started well before gay marriage, and so hardly had any impact. Which makes sense, since gay marriage has been only a reality in a few Belgium and the Netherlands for the past four years or so, hardly enough time to access major marriage trends.
If you go to Canada, you will find that they are handling gay marriage just fine.
The problem with some religions is one I find deeply troubling. It concerns all sorts of religions, but mostly the most sever and fundamental are the worse -- such as the hard right of Christianity or Islam or whatever.
Religion should really be a personal thing -- Even Jesus never said that a person must belong to an organized group to worship. Religion should tell us how to govern our own conscience and actions.
Where I draw the line is when a religion, or religious practitioner, decides that he will tell someone ELSE how to act or believe. A person is free to accept gays or not. A person is free to believe in evolution or creationism. However, he or she is NOT free, in my view, to tell someone else that they must believe something, or act a certain way.
If people of faith (which is often different from a religious person) would just concern themselves solely with their own thoughts and actions, not those of anyone else, we could have eliminated probably 90% of human suffering in the world, and today we could focus on other things, like global warming.
Basically, it's a control issue. These people feel the need to control other people's actions. Like all despots, they are praised by those who happen to agree with them, and despised by those who don't. But they need the conflich to keep going, I guess. Seems like an awful waste of time and energy.
1. Really? Then why do gay activists always feel the need to analogize their cause to that of the civil rights movement? If the positive case on the merits can be made, it needs no analogical support.
2. Sure there is. On the basis of taxes.
This reminds me of that beautiful Biblical passage, "Give unto God that which is God's, but pay nothing to Caesar, for thou art tax exempt." Or something like that.
Should liberal parents also be allowed to have their kids opt out of any class that exclusively uses examples of heterosexual marriage? Or are conservative religious values the only ones that get protected? Are liberal religious parents allowed to opt their kids out of using of any text that excludes positive assessments of SSM?
Does that mean that school districts would be required to buy two sets of books and hold two sets of classes for every subject that touches on marriage?
This shows the problem. Absent the abolishment of public schools (the libertarian solution, I suppose), it's really hard to accommodate religious parents who want any marriage discussion to include SSM and religious parents who want any marriage discussion to exclude SSM.
as for school curricula, there's no problem. jehovah's witnesses dont have the right not to have the teacher lead the class in the pledge of allegiance. fundies cant keep their kids from being taught evolution. christian scientists cant force the schools to teach that prayer works better than medicine. why is this different?
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1) Nobody bears any ill will to gay couples who wish to raise children. It's a noble and difficult undertaking and they deserve credit for it. At the same time, that doesn't mean that-- all else being equal-- the children would do as well as they would with both a mother and a father. As far as studies are concerned, a) sociologists have a terrible track record with political issues (e.g., they all thought that welfare reform was terribly destructive), b) related, the studies have very limited definition of "just as well.", c) none of those studies follow into later marriage, divorce, child-rearing statistics (related to b and a).
2) Eskridge and all have lost the debate and are just unwilling to admit it. For example, their only argument against Kurtz's findings in Scandinavia is "marriage and childrearing in Scandinavia was falling apart before gay marriage became law." Is that what we want for America?
3) Don't have to ask me, it's the theorists on the Left who claim that same-sex marriage will deconstruct marriage and open the door to all sorts of alternative relationships, such as polyamory. That's a point of agreement between the theorists on both sides, it's just that the far left *wants* to get rid of marriage.
No serious studies show any significant difference between kids raised by a same-sex or mixed-sex couple. But let's say for the sake of argument that future studies show clearly and incontrovertably that, all else being equal, kids do slightly better if their parents are a mixed-sex couple rather than a same-sex couple. Aren't those kids being raised by same-sex couples still likely to do better:
* than kids in the foster care system?
* than kids being raised by single parents?
* if their same-sex parents have the protections and obligations of marriage than if they don't?
Even if someone accepts all your premises, you seem to want to let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
You're kidding, right. The faithless murdered 160 megs of people during the 20th century. You don't need to believe in God to commit mass murder.
And the Reds and the Greens certainly believe in tight controls on human action -- sans God.
do you believe in reverse causality or something? smoking today gives me lung cancer tomorrow, not yesterday.
Religious speech is not the only type of speech impacted. If a public employee in New Jersey makes the truthful remark that a male-to-female transsexual is not a woman but is, in fact, merely a castrated man, he can be fired under that state's very broad anti-discrimination policy.
SSM will merely make the problem worse because since concepts like "mother", father", "husband", and "wife" will be banned from official use and from government schools we'll have loads of opportunities for social conflict. [Note that Mass. has banned husband and wife from state forms and anti-harrassment-law will do the rest.]
I'll grant you that some people would not be able to do everything they believe their religion requires (ask Native Americans who want to use Peyote about that), but what's the big deal about changing "mother" to "parent" and "wife" to "spouse" on forms?
As to social conflict, we have always had that. It's just that the gay person has traditionally lost. Now, the anti-gay person sometimes loses. I don't see how SSM adds any social conflict. It just changes who wins and who loses.
(a) Bob Jones
(b) Catholic adoption in Massachusetts,
there's also
(c) Catholic Charities in California, which was ordered by courts to hand out contraception (even though state law specifically exempted religious institutions from having to do so).
a) I'm not against gay couples adopting children. I acknowledge the good work done by gay adoptive parents. I think there are reasons to preference married man-women couples over them.
b) Scandinavia: Again, the best anyone can do is claim that marriage rates went down before they allowed same-sex marriage. Where are the same-sex marriage success stories? We didn't invent it-- Rome had it for a while, during their declining period starting with (get this) Nero. Failure in the past, and failure today.
How did Scandinavia's attitudes change in the years before they decided to permit SSM? What is the role of marriage in society? Look at that closely, and you can see the reasons for failure.
And it certainly is a stretch to blame this on the courts. The way the state law was written, it defined "religious institution" in a way that excluded Catholic Charities from the definition (basically, the definition was that "religious institution" = church). So it was the legislators who ordered Catholic Charities to include contraceptive coverage in its employees' health plans.
The church claimed that the law defied the state and federal constitutions. Were they an activist court, they might have overridden the will of the legislature, the people's representatives in government, and struck down the law as unconstitutional. Instead they allowed the law to stand.
I can understand your dismay at the outcome of this church-state religious-secular conflict--but you undercut a lot of your authority when you describe the situation in a hyperbolic way ("hand out contraceptives" indeed!) and blame the courts for the legislature's clearly intentional incursion into Catholic Charities' autonomy in this regard.
But the current system disciminates against pro-gay-rights religion. For example, a reform Rabbi does not have the legal right to perform a marriage that he thinks is perfectly supported by Jewish law.
Response:
Sure he does. Some churches and synagogues currently perform same-sex ceremonies, and not just in Massachusetts. All that the "current system" does is prevent governmental recognition of such marriages.
But it's the in the recognition that the government discriminates against the Reform rabbis. But if you agree that it's OK to impose uniform laws that have the effect of giving preference to some religions over others, you should have no problem with imposing uniform anti-discrimination laws that happen to impact politically conservative religions more than mainstream religions.
Also, for those of you upset that Catholic Charities chose to no longer help kids escape foster care, are you equally upset that the State of Florida won't let any agency place children for adoption with same-sex couples? A religiously motivated Florida agency could not follow its religious beliefs by placing kids with stable gay or lesbian parents.
This discussion is not about whether there will be an infringment on liberty. Each group wants liberty at the partial expense of another. The only question is who wins.
As gay people become more accepted every year, the fear of the anti-gay crowd is palpable. That's why they are trying to lock in their fleeting majorities at every opportunity.
Anti-gay forces have treated gay people as selfish, mentally deranged, perverted predators. Anti-gay forces have even passed laws to jail gay people just for having private consensual, turning gay people into felons. Hopefully, those on my side of this argument won't use the anti-gay people as models of tolerance and compassion. But that's probably what the anti-gay people fear.
pneed to hope that the gay rights movement treats anti-gay people with more compassion and tolerance than the anti-gay people have shown gays over the past few decades.
The anti-gay people
Given two irrelevant arguments? The best homosexual marriage advocates can hope for is already a reality -celebration and recognition of homosexual marriage by a few minor religious sects.
Homosexual liberty like Religious liberty is ALL about doing as one chooses --NOT about expecting society to fund such activity UNLESS society chooses to do so... There is no right to a social handout for what chooses to do...
Societal accommodation, reward, and privilege will never happen in regards to homosexual marriage. Those homosexually inclined are seeking a handout that society has no rational basis to fund, has chosen not to fund and will continue to choose not to fund.
The equal rights canard hoisted on left leaning flag poles is but advocacy for socialism -plain and simple. Such wealth redistribution premised in sexual acrobatic ability as well will not be funded by society...
There is NO rational basis for society to merit accomodation, reward, and privilege upon homosexual couples.
Why should marriage and with it the societal accommodation and privilege be limited to only heterosexual couples that wish to marry?
Simply put, because society has decided so. As evidenced in tradition, conventional wisdom, common law, and enacted law. Society -the people through elected representatives, in legislative bodies have enacted legislation that is premised alone upon the rational basis of procreation -society has decided such... Unlike those arguing for a leftist utopian socialist village ideology would suggest, marriage has never been accommodated, merited privilege, and rewarded simply to foster and promote love, child rearing, or even monogamous sex -these things are but incidental to the rational basis...
Incidental exceptions, e.g. couples who choose to contracept, do not negate the rational basis, they test it and in doing so clearly contrast against and specifically identify the basis that some attempt to deny as one very much existing and relevant. Case in point, Griswold v. Connecticut where premised upon a right to privacy it was decided that individuals have the right NOT to procreate via use of contraceptives...
One can clearly see that with Griswold it is that contrasted with the exception that demonstrates clearly the rule, the rational basis of procreation exists!
Regardless a legislature has not chosen to handle exceptions to the basis, e.g. those that choose to contracept, exceptionally by incorporating more rules or by changing totally the basis or doing away with ANY marital accommodation -that is their prerogative, not something for the courts to decide.
Again, as evidenced in Griswold v. Connecticut, there is no supposed heterosexual (or homosexual) right to be accommodated and rewarded by society for entering into non-procreative marriage -such marriages are exceptions incidental to the basis of procreation with such incidence being premised in the right to privacy (just as abortion is). Unlike privacy, marital accommodation, subsidy, and reward is a societal privilege premised upon legitimate and rationally based societal discrimination -marital accommodation, subsidy, and reward is NOT a right...
It is only by illegitimately ignoring the rational basis of procreation - illegitimately conflating the right to privacy (which prohibits the State from enforcing procreation) with the privilege accorded marriage (rationally based in procreation as provided for legislatively by the State) that one can even attempt to argue the ability to choose to engage in homosexual sex with another as something that merits anything from society.
In essence, homosexuals do not get a "free pass" under the privacy right like non-procreative heterosexuals do BECAUSE homosexuals objectively can not possibly ever procreate homosexually...
The ability to procreate and the possibility of procreation -something two homosexuals can not do no matter how much they try...
Some may argue -but what of no-fault divorce laws? Did not the "procreative position" as to rational basis lose most of its force in the 1970's when almost every state passed no-fault divorce statutes?
The legal impact of no-fault divorce laws could be argued both ways and I would suggest that in resolving apparent contradictions between the two ways one would necessarily find the truth as to just what the continued rational basis premising accommodation and privilege of heterosexual marriage was and even more so is now as evidenced by direct correlation to continued societal accommodation and privilege.
e.g. no fault divorce simply is an admission that love can not be legislated and as such is by default not a rational basis premising ANY accommodation and privilege (therefore promoting love via homosexual marriage is a non-starter)...
e.g. no fault divorce simply is an admission that keeping a couple together in the interest of raising children can not be legislated and as such is by default not a rational basis premising ANY accommodation and privilege (therefore promoting raising of children via homosexual marriage is a non-starter)...
Take the case of any single parent -yes, they procreated; however, they do not get the marital privelege or accomodation merited by society and enacted legislatively... Does finding a partner and engaging in homosexual activity suddenly change this legal precedence?
Take the case of two single parent sisters living together -yes, they procreated; however, not with each other YET they love each other as family -- AND they too do not get the marital privelege or accomodation merited by society and enacted legislatively... Would the two of them engaging in homosexual activity suddenly change this legal precedence?
Take the case of foster care parents who get funds from the State FOR the children not because of their sexual procilivity. Would foster care parents engaging in homosexual activity suddenly change this legal precedence?
IF society has not and does not reward love and child rearing with the benefits reserved marital privilege then what is the only rational basis that only the irrational would ignore? -- The answer is obvious --PROCREATION
"Will Same-Sex Marriage Collide With Religious Liberty"?
I'll put it differently. Will failure of the state to recognize relationships of same-sex couples (so-called "gay marriage"), on the same basis that it recognizes relationships of opposite sex couples (so-called "marriage") collide with religious liberty? There are some establishments of religion that recognize same-sex marriage, including the Unitarian Universalists and the Metropolitan Community Church. Query why, particularly under the first amendment's establishment clause, religious organizations that oppose same-sex marriage should be able to determine whether same-sex marriage should be recognized by the states.
Moreover, under the 1st amendment's establishment clause, query why those of us who reject "establishments of religion" in any guise should be discriminated against merely because some "establishments of religion" oppose same-sex marriage.
It is amazing that the question is always put whether state-recognition of same-sex marriage infringes on some peoples' establishments of religion, whereas the other issues are ignored.
The idea that pro-gay-rights people are conditioning marital benefits on sexual activity is just silly. No one requires heterosexual couples to have sex to get the legal benefits (and responsibilities) of marriage. We also shouldn't ask gay people about their sex lives.
Other than his sister-marriage argument, Legal Novice doesn't explain why the children of same sex parents should be denied the protections of marriage--health insurance, automatic inheritance, child support and visitation upon divorce, etc. Why shouldn't those kids should have the same rights as the adopted kids of non-procreative heterosexual couples?
Ironically, the lack of same sex marriage has reduced the incentive for some heterosexuals to marry. Because they can't marry, gays have developed many quasi-marriage contracts. Because many companies want to support gay families, they have given benefits to unmarried but cohabiting workers. Often, unmarried heterosexuals can use the benefits. If gays could get married, then companies could limit benefits to married couples only.
So, we come back to the point that some people don't see a value to SSM, but many others do, and in increasing numbers year-after-year and generation-after-generation. And the anti-gay foes of SSM had better hope that gay rights people are more tolerant than the anti-gay people have been.
(And please, keep arguing that "non-procreative" relationships aren't meaningful enough to deserve the rights and duties of marriage. That helps drive the millions of infertile couples toward the pro-same-sex marriage camp.)
Nonetheless, I will address one aspect of his argument. If rational basis is the standard for permitting same-sex marriage prohibitions, I agree with Legal Novice that those prohibitions will stand (procreation is sufficient).
But, that's only because rational basis is a preposterously low standard. Judged by anything even remotely higher, procreation is a laughable basis, and I argue that strict scrutiny should apply because a fundamental right is implicated.