Donald Boudreaux ponders the implications of Senator Hillary Clinton's claim that her difficulties in the Democratic primaries are due to sexism.
So a woman who holds degrees from Wellesley and Yale – who has earned millions in the private sector, won two terms in the U.S. Senate, and gathered many more votes than John Edwards, Bill Richardson and several other middle-aged white guys in their respective bids for the 2008 Democratic nomination – feels cheated because she's a woman.
Seems doubtful. But hey, I'm a guy and perhaps hopelessly insensitive. So let's give her the benefit of the doubt and assume that her campaign has indeed suffered because of sexism.
This fact (if it be a fact) reveals a hitherto unknown, ugly truth about the Democratic Party. The alleged bastion of modern liberalism, toleration and diversity is full of (to use Mrs. Clinton's own phrase) "people who are nothing but misogynists." Large numbers of Democratic voters are sexists. Who knew?
But here's another revelation. If Mrs. Clinton is correct that she is more likely than Barack Obama to defeat John McCain in November, that implies Republicans and independents are less sexist than Democrats.
Meanwhile, Camille Paglia says "sexism has nothing to do it."
Contrary to the linked article’s assertion, Clinton’s comment about “people who are nothing but misogynists” was a reference to the media, not primary voters. And does anyone believe that there is not still sexism in America today? I’m sure people disagree on the amount of sexism. But it’s absurd to pretend that there’s no sexism, much like it would be absurd to pretend there’s no racism.
It's truly a cruel world...
Can't we just call it infinite already?
I also agree with the above poster that while Hillary has been hurt in part because of sexism, she has also greatly benefited from her gender.
That's been the backbone of Republican strategy in the South for decades. Fortunately, it may not work as well this year as in the past.
If HRC is smart enough to get degrees from Wellesley and Yale, then she is hardly incapable of crying misogyny when she does not succeed. Wellesley is a women's college, which, presumably, does not discriminate in favour of men. If she did well there, and earned her admission to Yale Law, then she's probably quite intelligent. If she then went on to break more barriers in the legal world, she's bright and has the ability to succeed.
Wouldn't those abilities and skills underscore her charges of sexism, rather than undermine them? After all, it's not sexist to refuse to vote for a less-qualified person or to criticise her in the media; it is sexist, however, to criticise that person solely because of her sex.
It would make a lot more sense to say that a less-successful woman, in this situation, has less to complain about: after all, she may not have the qualifications to be a solid candidate for the presidency. Mr. Bourdeaux, though, compares her with the average American, deems her successful, and then determines that she ought not complain about sexism in a head-to-head match-up with Barack Obama. The question isn't whether she is more qualified than the average person to be President; it is whether her detractors (who, presumably, support Obama) would be more likely to support her if she were a man, in the same situation.
Hillary isn't just some woman, she's someone with a marked political style, rhetorical tenor and ideology, and she has a complex history with the exercise of power in the 90s. For those who see her in purely reductionist terms, I think she is viewed as a symbol of her generation as often as she is as of her gender.
So, sure, people may see Hillary different because she's a woman, but that would seem to pale in comparison to seeing her differently because they remember who she is and what she has done.
Or to profit from Affirmative Action. She was admitted during a huge push to admit females.
Thank you Eliot Reed for demonstrating just how deeply illogical Adler and Boudreaux are. You would think that the chairman of the economics department at George Mason University would have an understanding of the basics causation, but apparently not. (I don't have such high expectations for Adler, who is, after all, a law professor.) That the chairman of this economics department would embarrass himself this badly in an editorial in a national newspaper is pretty shocking. Did he not have time to think through this argument? This just shows that the GMU economics department is truly second-rate. Pathetic.
Remind me again which party has a Klansman as a sitting Senator. (Hint: Robert "KKK" Byrd).
"Or to profit from Affirmative Action. She was admitted during a huge push to admit females."
She's profited more from being Bill Clinton's husband than by anything else she's ever done. What a pathetic - and revealing - excuse for a 'feminist'.
"By and large, both Democratic candidates have benefited more than they've lost as a result of race or gender. Obama's wins from his black support have outweighed the loss of support from people who won't vote for a black president, and Hillary's persistent support from women has been more a boon for her than whatever misogynist voting block out there has hurt her."
The ironic benefit of this - that Hillary is supported by female misandrists, and that Hussein is supported by black racists - is that neither group will vote for the other's candidate. The bad blood, the sexism from the Hussein campaign and the racist dog-whistles from the Hillary camp, is going to result in massive numbers of Democrats staying home out of spite. Of course, massive numbers of real conservatives are going to stay home rather than vote for McRINO, so it might be a wash :)
"If HRC is smart enough to get degrees from Wellesley and Yale, then she is hardly incapable of crying misogyny when she does not succeed."
A smart liberal woman plays the victim whenever she can, because the feminized, unChristian men that dominate the Democrat Party roll over and play dead when a woman lays the guilt trip on.
I wonder how many of the folks that won't vote for Obama supposedly because of his race would have voted for Powell had he chosen to run a few years ago? My guess is that is would have been a significant percentage, due to Powell's perceived conservatism. Granted there will always be those who would never vote for a black, Catholic, Jew, etc., but I think Obama's liberalism is the bigger turn off for these folks.
Exactly. I am not even discussing the merits of the particular claim "Republicans are more racist." Boudreaux conclusion does not follow logically from his own premises.
I wouldn't give him the benefit of the doubt like you do.
I'm guessing you have the causation backwards.
the fact that democrats overwhelmingly support racial preferences iow institutionalized forced racism, and republicans support equal opportunity (no racial preferences) also overwhelmingly shows the lie that republicans, at least as a matter of policy, are more racist than democrats.
No more absurd than a black woman with degrees from Princeton and Harvard, married to a Senator and making a gazillion dollars a year, whining about how America is mean and racist and how it's soooo tough to get by.
Conservatives would have no problem at all voting for a Golda Meir or a Margaret Thatcher. The sex of a candidate doesn't matter, and a Thatcher or a Meir would be head and shoulders above any current candidate as far as conservative voters are concerned.
The Democrats are currently in the process of rejecting a strong female candidate in favor of a weak Kenyan-American man. So, what national female leader is the hero of the Democrat Party, in this or any other country? Are there any? Or do Democrats prefer men?
Your comparison between a Meir/Thatcher candidacy versus current plausible candidates on the Republican side and the Clinton-Obama matchup really doesn't illustrate your point about greater sexism within the Democratic Party at all. Two female candidates who are "true believers," and stalwart conservatives, against a field of candidates who all have fairly glaring flaws so far as different conservative factions are concerned. That probably is more a commentary on the different political climates that produce a successful hard-line politician like Thatcher versus those which produce fields like this year's, but still, the comparison to the Clinton-Obama matchup is a poor one inasmuch as those two candidates have very few actual policy differences. If Clinton were a doctrinaire liberal and Obama were outside the mainstream of the Party, either to the left or the right, but Obama still managed to wrest the nom away from her, your comparison would make sense.
It wasn't that hard of a question BTW. Johnathan you should have been able to figure it out on your own.
That's the problem with you liberals. You just keep telling yourselves what you want to hear. Hillary, Obama, just like Kerry and Gore before them, will have no shot winning any of the South because they treat it like a backwater republic full of Jesus-freaks toting their guns looking to shoot puppies and homosexuals.
By crying sexism, Hillary is doing what liberals and Dems always do. Cry victimhood.
Interesting analysis, and I can't say I disagree with it.
But it didn't address the question at all, which was: what national female leader is the hero of the Democrat Party, in this or any other country? Are there any? Or do Democrats prefer men?
Based on the empirical evidence [despite the usual propaganda], it's obvious that Democrats prefer men.
Refute it with specific examples, if you can.
Or do you have, like, reasons?
She's a well-known proven serial liar, vicious to her enemies ( real or perceived ), power-mad, spoiled, egotistical to the extreme, 'superior' in her own mind, and just plain two-faced and nasty.
She lies about having experience ( being married to a politician is not experience ), she lies about coming under sniper fire ( from little girls reading poems and handing out flowers ), she hides her WH phone records by court ruling, she claims not to be ablt to find financial records ( until it's about to cause her bigger problems, at which point she 'finds them' lying on the table in the library ), she turns $ 1,000 into $ 100,000 in a week in cattle futures and pretends it was 'just good investing', the list goes on and on and on.
She signs on to certain DNC rules, votes for them, and then when she thinks changing them would be in her favor, she compares them to everything from slavery to the Civil Rights Movement to Women's Voting RIghts to Robert Mugabe in Zimbabwe.
People don't hate her because she's female - they hate for because she's Hillary, and everything it means.
I ask because I'm seeing a lot of statements that are pointing towards "Anyone who doesn't vote for Sen. Obama is racist." and "Anyone who doesn't vote for Sen. Clinton is sexist.", especially wrt the general election.
As to comparisons with other countries, I think they have limited utility. National political dynamics are really very different, even within conventional cultural groupings, such as "the West." Nevertheless, the main center-left party in France, the Socialists ran Ségolène Royal, a woman, in the 2007 presidential election. She ran a competitive race but lost, and remains a prominent leader within the Party.
In any event, if he's elected President in November, will it be transformed into "[t]he American people's affirmative action fetish," or can we perhaps acknowledge at that point that he's a very talented politician, quite apart from his skin color?
I opt for the former when it comes to your second paragraph. When he's elected president it will be largely because of his race, not in spite of it. His will be the thinnest resume of anyone elected president in at least 100 years, with George W. Bush a close second.
What choice have we had? Every time I've voted for President it has been man vs. man. There haven't even been any credible women in the Presidential primaries.
Personally, I couldn't care less about genital configuration, I care about the candidate's policies.
His will be the thinnest resume of anyone elected president in at least 100 years, with George W. Bush a close second.
Lotta Presidents in the past 100 years were state governors, and of even less significant states than Texas.
However, I couldn't help noticing some of the other commenters seem to have missed the joke. As a courtesy to them, perhaps you might want to give a bigger wink in the future.
... and when a smart conservative woman does it? Like, say, for example, the chair of John McCain's campaign committee?
If any here were reading conservative blogs some years ago, you'd recall they were pitching Condi for pres, or possibly veep for one term for seasoning.
Then she went all mushy and is no longer a conservative interest.
Point is, she's both a woman and a WOC and was getting conservative inerest, until her policies got more ink, or changed on account of being at State, which generally happens.
Seems to indicate conservatives are more interested in views than gender or race.
But we knew that, already.
Accusations of racism or sexism are mostly bogus. Thing is, they don't work as manipulative scams any longer.
Senator Clinton was not admitted to Yale Law during "a huge push to admit females." I finished undergraduate school the same year as Senator Clinton and there was no such push in place at any graduate or professional school at that time. I listened to a Yale professor tell me that I wasn't a suitable candidate due to my "plumbing designed to produce babies" that very year. Then, we witnessed the change blossom, starting the very next year. Take a close look at the percentage of females entering medical schools in the Fall of 1969 through 1972 and you'll see how sudden the change really was. Those of us in the very last years before it was possible remember exactly when things changed.
That said, I am not supporting Senator Clinton for President, but for more substantial reasons.
The "B" word is usually a compliment. A dangerous compliment, but a compliment nonetheless. It's also a sign of the speaker's powerlessness. It means that the woman has done something beyond the speaker's control, and all the speaker has left to do is use the "B" word. In this case, it's a sign that there's nothing anyone can do to stop Hillary from continuing her now-delusional race for the Whitehouse.
I heard a business woman say that she loves to be called "bitch" because it means that she's won and there's nothing the speaker can do about it.
Plus, Obama was never bold enough to market himself only to blacks. Hillary, on the other hand, expressly used her support among "white" voters as a reason why she should be the nominee.
Hillary lost this race because her campaign assumed she would win. The campaign was disorganized and reeked of entitlement from the beginning (remember the Judas comment?) She didn't shift messages until it was too late to actually win. She lost fair and square, on the merits.
I'm a left-leaning woman who switched registration from no party to Democrat. I voted for Obama with deep misgivings. (I'm not thrilled about McCain either.) I think that Hillary is power-hungry in an unhealthy way. (Also, there's the opportunistic position-switching.)
Incidentally, I think that if Hillary were a man, she would be admired instead of criticized for crushing her enemies.
I guess that my point is that while sexism or misogyny or a double standard or whatever you want to call it is alive and well, it's possible to oppose Hillary for reasons that have nothing to do with either.
The fact that posters on these websites feel free to use that word, the fact that Hillary nutcrackers are being sold, (have we seen any Obama lawn jockeys?), speaks volumes.
No, but I have seen this report of Clinton voter after Clinton voter saying that they couldn't vote for a black man.
Racism and sexism exist. Obama will lose some votes for people who won't vote for a black man. He will also gain some votes from people tired of only voting for white men. Many Clinton supporters are very candid that they support her because specifically because she's a woman.
I haven't seen any reliable data to see which candidate lost or gained the most because of race/gender. If you're going to claim Clinton lost because of sexism, you're going to need something more scientific than anecdotal
Oh, an notice how you referred to Clinton by her first name and Obama by his last name? Are you some kind of closet sexist? Just kidding. Hillary wants to be called "Hillary" and Obama wants to be called "Obama." But if you look hard enough, you can always find reason to take offense.
As to the word "bitch," the women I know do take it as a compliment most of the time. Of course, I mainly deal with criminal defense attorneys and prosecutors, who often wear the epitaph as a badge of honor. And I stick by my point--if you've just been called a "bitch," it's usually because you just won, and there's nothing the speaker can do about it.
If you find a politician who isn't, please inform the rest of us.
Hillary is both admired and criticized for crushing her enemies, generally by different people. If she were a man, it would be no different, she'd be criticized by some, admired by others. See, for example, Giuliani, who was both admired for his toughness by some and criticized by others. Maybe the balance would be different were Hillary a woman, but only by degree.
It's clear to anyone rational that Hillary has lost. Acting "tough" now makes her look more like the Black Knight (also here) than Winston Churchill.
What polls show that? I strongly suspect that HRC lied through her teeth the the WaPo, which per their established practice did not call her on her bullshit.
I'm tired of the media giving Hillary a free pass.
The B word does not apply to all women as the n word might to all blacks.
The b word applies to women who act in a certain way.
So there is no equivalence. Plenty of reason to call Hillary a bitch, if you dislike how she conducts her political life.
I assumed it was because she made a poll-driven decision to distance herself from another Clinton whose reputation is not as shiny among Democrats as it once was.
And what do you mean that her "desire to be called 'Hillary'" might "be a response to sexism"?
Sees "nothing wrong"? Give me a break. Outside the comment section of blogs, how many times has she been called a "bitch" in any media? If society thought it were acceptable, you'd hear it from her opponents, in print, and from commentators on TV.
But I go back to my main point. A woman who is called a "bitch" has a number of choices. One choice is that she can stew in her own victimhood. Another choice is that she can realize that she has just won. The speaker has no real criticism and no way to stop her from doing what she wanted to do. A woman can only be a victim if she chooses to be.
I would not use the word in anger for just that reason. By calling a woman a "bitch," I would admit that I am powerless to stop her from doing what she wanted to do. All I would do is underline the fact that I had just lost and that all I could do is name-call.
On the other side, I have several female colleagues who revel in the word. If they just won a case and got a client out of prison after a tough fight against an obstinate judge and/or prosecutor, they sometimes refer to themselves as "bitches," and they would take the word as a compliment from their colleagues. I admit that at work, you really have to know your audience.
In the end, when you are called a "bitch," you can be a victim or you can empower yourself. Your choice.
In the hierarchy of favored groups among Democrats, race, particularly African-Americans, get the top spot. Females do not. It would have been interesting to see what Democrats would have done with an African-American female candidate running against Obama in their primary. That would have put them in a pickle, no?
That explains why Fritz Mondale picked Geraldine Ferraro, an African-American male, to be the first non-white male to be a vice presidential candidate for a major party. There's no way the Democratic party would have given that honor to a woman.
On a serious note, give me a break. Your post is based on no facts other than an anecdotal review of blog posts and reeks of victimhood.
It's not that black and white.
Well, meet some new women. I'm always offended when called that word, because it means that I'm not <i>supposed</i> to be tough and smart - I'm supposed to be a cute little cupcake who uses passive-aggressive women's tools to get her way.
You're making Calmom's point, by the way: you obviously see nothing wrong with calling women that, and even go so far as to say any woman who is offended by it needs to get over her victimhood. Could you be any more sexist? Why can't the girl just take a joke, hum...?
By the way, much as blacks may occasionally refer to each other as the "n" word, but take great offence when anyone else does that (as well they should), women mean something different when they refer to themselves as the b-word.
Nothing wrong with calling a woman a "bitch"? Not at all. It usually shows that the speaker is a whining loser and the woman he called a "bitch" just won.
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C'mon, Mister Public Defender...
...the word is "EPITHET".
(There's a thread about it).
Yes. No. If you don't find the comparison appropriate (heaven only knows why not), then please explain why. It need not hold for all instances; just for this one.
So you justify it, not on the grounds that it's an actual compliment (along the lines of "Wonderful job!"), nor that it is entirely benign; rather, you lump it in with all insults and presume that there is nothing more demeaning in the term than there would be, in, say, "dooty-head."
It still doesn't make it right for men to call women that, and it certainly does not mean that every woman has to take it as a compliment, when it is clearly intended to be demeaning.
I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult.
Although, I admit that calling someone a "dooty-head" would make the speaker sound silly, "bitch" is different. Nearly unique among insults, calling a woman a "bitch" implies that she has the power to be, well, a bitch, and that the speaker doesn't have the power to do anything about it.
Do women "have to" take the comment as a compliment instead when it's clearly meant as an insult? No. And I wouldn't recommend to anyone to use the term (except for well-known colleagues who have clearly embraced the term on their own, and even then, in moderation).
But sometimes you have to take a step back and think. Did that insult really sting? When I argue a case, I often find that my strongest arguments are in my opponent's briefs and oral arguments. Sometimes they make arguments that hurt the point they are trying to make. And I love to show how I win using their words.
Calling someone a "bitch" is making an argument that you think helps, but that actually undermines your message. As I said before, the word often means that the woman has won, and that the man can't do a damn thing about it. If you can't understand how that can be empowering to the woman, then there's really nothing left for the two of us to discuss.
Have a nice evening.
No. It implies that she lacks the power (socially) to do what she has done.
The man is doing something about it - swearing at her and demeaning her in a socially acceptable manner. The term is intended to (and often does, quite successfully) reduce a woman's achievement to less than human success - the acts of a dog, if you will. Men don't do that to other men, which is the problem. When another man has won and the losing party can't do a thing about it, the latter won't attempt to denigrate his achievement in a way that gets everyone else to denigrate the achievement, too.
I'm sorry, but I'm a bit too old-fashioned to think that it's "empowering" to have someone swear at me. It's about as "empowering," in fact, as having a child sucked out of my uterus... i.e. it's downright demeaning.
Because of this ambiguity, it's impolite to use such words in a potentially pejorative context around anyone who might not be sure about our intentions. Conversely, when, as the audience, we're uncertain what's meant by a word we don't like, the fair response, other than objecting to the word itself, is to withhold judgment about the intention of the user.
Besides failing to seriously examine race or gender issues - which obviously Clinton herself does not think are concentrated in the Democratic party or those likely to vote against Republicans this election - Boudreaux does not even begin to scratch the reasons why Clinton implies she would be a more successful candidate against McCain than would Obama.
What might those reasons be? In addition to the issue of racism within the Republican party electorate (as noted by Elliot Reed), a couple of others spring to mind:
- Clinton's position on "defense" enables better pandering than Obama. Clinton's position is closer to McCain's, and so she does not turn off (i) those voters for whom strong support for Israel is important or (ii) those who support military/defense pork, and (iii) she is also more capable than Obama of capturing the votes of Republican women voters, while (iv) she is still much more likely to capture the antiwar voters than McCain; and
- Clinton appears more experienced than Obama.
To put the relative positions in the hierarchy into perspective: Since Reconstruction, there have been three black Senators. Since women got the right to vote, there have been 35 female Senators. Carol Moseley-Braun was 1/3 of the black Senators, but only 1/35 of the female Senators.
It would have been interesting to see what Democrats would have done with an African-American female candidate running against Obama in their primary.
How far did Carol Moseley-Braun get in her campaign? Barbara Jordan? Shirley Chisholm? Only Geraldine Ferraro made it on a national ticket -- what was different about her?
The three WOC you mention had the additional baggage of being further left than was desired by the dem primary voters.
Yeah, it leaves the implication that she lacks the power to do what she did. But that implication is laughably wrong because she just did it.
We seem to agree that calling a woman a "bitch" is generally wrong. (I say "generally" because of those limited times in which a woman has expressly embraced the term, and you may disagree with that exception). The difference between our approaches is that you leave the woman no choice but to remain a victim. I give her the choice to be the victor.
And, all were likely too black.
For the most part, the way to win the national election is to pick up swing and cross-over voters. Obama is likely to lose national security liberals and not pick up very many from the middle who value security through strength. Most oef those who value security through talking a lot with everyone are likely to vote for whichever candidate the Democrats end up running.
In the end I think, there are a lot of people who thought that they would never vote for another Clinton, but then found that they would vote for such over another Carter or Bush. The cost of another Clinton presidency would be to check the silver when they leave, and figure that they would graft another couple of million along the way. The cost of an Obama presidency would likely be similar to that of Carter - ineffective and weak in the world and stagflation at home.
Overall, I think that Hillary! has impressed a lot of people with her willingness to fight. For the most part, she comes across as tough, and indeed, for a long time I have felt her the stronger and tougher of the two Clintons.
Indeed, this is one of the big things I took away from Dick Morris' biography of Hillary. Apparently, one of the lessons that she took away from growing up was how to hit back. When picked on at school, her father had her take boxing lessons. So, no surprise that it was she who would be the one coming out fighting when her mommy's boy husband was under attack.
So, if the sh** hits the fan during the next administration, the public probably has little worry about what the son of an Admiral who ordered the bombing of Hanoi when his son was a POW there would do (even though he has two sons in uniform). And we have seen that Hillary hits back when attacked. But what would Obama do? Would he cry racism? Would he have an encounter group? At what point would he use force? Would he make Carter look strong and determined in the face of such a challenge?
The reality is that anyone who purports to know that Obama would react strongly to an attack on the U.S. is most likely engaging in wishful thinking. He just has given the American people no evidence of that, or that he understands the first thing about international diplomacy.
It rather seems that when very often, when someone complains of poor-quality posts on VC, they are suspiciously likely to ALSO disagree with the political point that the post makes.
One might almost suspect that the "poor quality" critique is someone's way of complaining about getting their delicate political sensibilities abused without overtly sounding like a whiner.
I'm victimizing women? Oh, sorry, she should EMBRACE it when she's dehumanised, instead of calling it out for what it is.
Social power =/= physical power. Sorry.
What does this mean?
If I want to wear a t-shirt proclaiming myself a bitch, then yes, that can be empowering. Some women have tried to reclaim words like bitch and cunt. But if a stranger or coworker calls me a bitch, they are *not* complementing me - and the comparison to a female dog is inherently sex based.
No one calls a man a bitch. No one even insults men for the many of the things that provoke women being called bitches.
Last I looked, Hillary wasn't winning the nomination, and yet she is routinely called a bitch - even by supporters of the man that is beating her. How is this supposed to be a complement again?
The notion that every woman that gets called bitch has just won something, and it's a form of recognition of her superiority and the powerlessness of the speaker is laughably false. Women get called bitches by people in a position to adversely affect them all the time. In fact, many of the people calling Hillary a bitch are actively working to defeat her, and demonizing her is a step along the way.
Public_Defender: "does not equal." I said that a man calling a woman a "bitch" means that she lacks the social power to do what she did. You ignored that point, and say that, since she did it, she has the power. You ignored my qualifier.
I will say that you are a prime example of how modern men seem to hate women. So it's now "empowering" to be insulted in a way that a man would not be insulted? Under that rationale, any undeserved degradation is "empowering," which is total bull. What next - abuse is empowering, because the abuser is acknowledging that he has no control over her except by the strength of his fist? Any woman who points out that abuse is NOT empowering is giving women no option but to be victims?
SUCH WOMAN-HATING CRAP.
Because the can't force her out. People say she is through, that she doesn't have a chance, and that she should quit for the good of the causes she claims to support. But they are powerless to force her out. She wants to stay in the race, so she stays in the race.
And yes, calling a stranger a "bitch" or using it as an attack is offensive and sexist, but it's still dumb because, as I've said before, it usually shows that the speaker has just lost. It's possible for a statement to be offensive, sexist, and (unintentionally) empowering at the same time.
In Hillary's case, the people in the blog comments who use the term are energizing her support and underlining their powerlessness to force her out. Sounds empowering to me.
What evidence is there that Public_Defender hates women? His argument may be politically incorrect, but that's not evidence of animus. Assume, arguendo, he's 100% wrong, and in a way only a man would be. Isn't it possible to take a politically incorrect position and be horrendously wrong without being a bigot? Demonizing the motives of someone whose opinion you object to is arguing by smear. It's the kind of bullying PC enforcement that discredits the advocacy of so many ideologues and interest groups.
Oh, please. Like throwing the "politically incorrect" label on it means that it's all sweet and lovely and I just need to get my panties out of a twist, because I'm a hyper-emotional P.C. modern victimised woman.
No, it has nothing to do with the fact that I'm just pointing out that which is obvious to any moderately-functioning human: insults are not compliments. They are antonyms, not synonyms.
Well, the fact that he thinks we should be complimented when our highest achievements bring us comparisons to female dogs is, IMHO, woman-hating.
I think you should be complimented when you've done such a good job that the "best" your attacker can do is use a lame insult that really only shows that you just bested him.
Insults are not intentionally compliments.
Well-known misogynist Eleanor Roosevelt, 'This Is My Story,' 1937 (Source)
And you got that from which part of my comment?
That's a fair argument, though again, not one I'm disputing. But it doesn't explain how you reach the conclusion of his actual animus.
Again, assuming your interpretation is 100% correct and his is 100% wrong, it's still a logical leap from that to him being a misogynist. He's arguing with you over how a word could be interpreted. He's not actually using the word himself. In fact you've effectively called him names, while he hasn't called anyone anything. So yes, you are bullying him with the debate-stifling smear tactics commonly associated with political correctness.
An ass hole is a male bitch. Or a bitch is a female ass hole. I don't know whether I'd rather be a solid-waste-excreting aperture or a female dog, but I don't see how either one is sexist. The guy who cuts me off in traffic is an ass hole. The woman is a bitch.
I don't see how using the word bitch makes one a sexist, or how it implies anything about the way in which one thinks about females generally.
Maybe he should take my "bullying" as a compliment, and, if so, he hardly needs you to stand up for him.
At this point, there's two options: animus or stupidity. I don't think that he's stupid, because he's a rational adult. He is, nevertheless, a rational adult who is persisting despite what Josie, Calmom, myself, and others have said - that it's pretty bloody obvious that calling a woman a bitch is sexist, insulting tripe. He persists, saying that I'm making women into victims by pointing this out; he persists, despite the fact that he's a he. It's not that men can't be insightful; it's just that, well, he's not the foremost authority in the world on what it's like to be a woman who is called a bitch.
If I were to say that men ought to find it empowering to be kicked in the balls, because that means that the woman doing it has lost the fight, and men said otherwise, I would back off. Don't know what it's like to be kicked in the balls, don't watch movies every day where my sex gets beat up that way, don't worry about it, don't wear cups when I play sports - yeah, I would back off, rather than tell men to be "empowered" by cruelty.
By the way, there is no animus requirement in "woman-hating crap." It's the content of the crap in question (here, "bitch" = "empowering"), not the intent, that is woman-hating. :)
Now, do I need to give Public_Defender a hug and a cupcake - let him know that I'm not one of those feminists? Because, ya know, we bully people.
He hardly needs me to stand up for him, regardless. Anyway, he's the public defender, not me. The first question for determining whether I'm standing up for someone is, "Have they signed my fee agreement?"
There are plenty of other options, but for now let's just take one. You might misunderstand what he's saying.
Bad example (getting kicked in the balls usually means you lost the fight), but consider this one instead:
Mike Tyson once bit off part of Evander Holyfield's ear during a fight. Holyfield could have insisted there's no positive spin you can put on losing a body part, but the conventional wisdom shared by Holyfield was that Tyson acted out of frustration and desperation. In other words, biting off Holyfield's ear was an inadvertent compliment.
Now let's imagine Holyfield had refused to read anything complimentary into Tyson's behavior. Would that have meant all the reporters and commentators suggesting otherwise harbored some sort of pathological hostility toward Holyfield or toward clean boxers generally?
How about in "I will say that you are a prime example of how modern men seem to hate women" and "Well, the fact that he thinks we should be complimented when our highest achievements bring us comparisons to female dogs is, IMHO, woman-hating"? But if your purpose was to back away from impugning his intentions, that's to be encouraged and complimented. And if I were a better person I wouldn't have brought up the other examples. :)
Hugs and cupcakes are always optional but, speaking for myself, welcome.
I think theobromophile and I agree that (except for very narrow exceptions) men should not call women "bitches." But my argument is persuasive to two groups who would remain unpersuaded or unhelped by theobromophile's position--misogynists who call women "bitches" and the women called "bitches" by misogynists.
Telling a misogynist that calling a woman a "bitch" is misogynist will never convince him to stop using the word. His response would be, "Yeah, so what? That's what I meant!" Telling a misogynist that calling a woman a "bitch" makes him look like a weak loser is more likely (or less unlikely) to change behavior.
Likewise, telling a woman that she must feel inferior when a man calls her a "bitch" doesn't do her a lot of good. Pointing out that the word very well might mean she just won and that there's nothing the guy can do about it gives her the choice to become the victor, not the victim.
And yes, cupcakes are always welcome. Thank you.
All were women.
Had one or more been men, the feminists would have required my daughter to cease her--ultimately successful--effort to prevail and sit among her angst mourning the oppression by the patriarchy.
I have referred to those women as bitches because they were dishonest, incompetent, and probably corrupt and they put my daughter in a serious spot in her life. At one point, there seemed little that could be done, so I suppose you could say they "won".
So a triumph by a bitch isn't necessarily a good thing.
Now that my daughter has prevailed, I suppose they're referring to her as a bitch.
How about the equivalent of "bitch" being "bastard"?