Adam's Rib:

My father pointed out that this year is the 60th anniversary of the release of Adam's Rib, a movie about a married lawyer couple (played by Spencer Tracy and Katherine Hepburn). I didn't much like the movie, but since I'm a lawyer married to a lawyer, my brother is a lawyer married to a lawyer, both of the other founding conspirators (Jonathan Adler, then Juan Non-Volokh, and Michelle Boardman, who left the blog when she took a Justice Department job) are lawyers married to lawyers, and the two judges for whom I've clerked (Judge Kozinski and Justice O'Connor) are married to lawyers, I thought I'd note the anniversary here.

These days I joke that lawyers are legally obligated to marry other lawyers, reflecting a pattern that I see throughout my circle. (It may well be different in other legal subcommunities in other places.) But once, for obvious reasons, it was unusual enough to be seen as meriting a movie.

Of course, women lawyers were also not so unheard of at the time that the plot device would be seen as too fantastic: Women judges had been around since the 1920s, a woman had been appointed Assisant Attorney General in 1921, and women lawyers had been practicing law for some decades before then. A woman's life as a lawyer was of course not easy then, and I suspect that in many places there were no women lawyers at all. But there had been some women in American law, and in high places in American law, for quite a while, rather longer than I had thought before I looked into the matter.

CrimsonTribe:

These days I joke that lawyers are legally obligated to marry other lawyers, reflecting a pattern that I see throughout my circle. (It may well be different in other legal subcommunities in other places.)


In my small subcommunity (lawyers working in a federal agency in DC), the female lawyers tend to be married to male lawyers, but the male lawyers tend to marry teachers (particularly elementary school teachers).
1.5.2009 4:15pm
MarkField (mail):
I'm at least able to one-up you on this score: not only is my wife a lawyer, but one daughter is in law school.

Wait a minute -- which direction is victory?
1.5.2009 4:21pm
bornyesterday (mail) (www):
MarkField - The enemy's gate is down.

In the whole, is this really that surprising? Similarly minded people with similar interests generally make pretty good partners. I was in Alpha Phi Omega, a coed service fraternity, in college, and I need two hands just to count the number of couples who formed from members of my chapter alone. If I go on to inter-chapter relationships and pairings inside other chapters, it just gets ridiculous.
1.5.2009 4:28pm
Duffy Pratt (mail):
The reason lawyers should marry other lawyers is to protect the sanity of the rest of the population.
1.5.2009 4:29pm
Katl L (mail):
Here, in South America is the same. I m married with a lawyer , and im the son of another couple of lawyer.
Only a lawyer or a crazy man ,or woman, will marry a lawyer.
I f you are not a lawyer in the divorce you will get only your hands to cover yourself.
Most of my law class is divorced, some of them 3 times. Its not the same with the people that studied with me in Highschool.
Look in a textbook what are the supposed effect of phiconanalisys on people, you will see that they describe a lawyer.
1.5.2009 4:33pm
David Walser:
I don't think the movie turned on the novelty of a female attorney. Instead, the movie dealt with the inherent conflict created when the Assistant DA prosecutes an individual that's being defended by the Assistant DA's wife. (Would that even be allowed, today? Even if the defendant were to waive the conflict, I doubt the court would allow a case to proceed with one spouse serving as the prosecutor and the other as defense attorney.) The movie also dealt with gender roles within marriage. Again, the wife-as-attorney was not treated as novel nor was it the focus.

FWIW, I don't care much for the movie, either. That's not saying much. I don't care for many of the movies Tracey and Hepburn made together.
1.5.2009 4:35pm
Dave N (mail):
Mark Field wrote:
I'm at least able to one-up you on this score: not only is my wife a lawyer, but one daughter is in law school.

Wait a minute -- which direction is victory?
Read Jim Lindgren's related post. :-)
1.5.2009 6:02pm
BZ (mail):
Hmm, well, it was true in Europe before the wars as well. Maternal grandparents were both lawyers, she being one of the first female international lawyers. When she fled Austria after the Nazi take-over, she couldn't find work in New York as a lawyer.
1.5.2009 6:15pm
Thief (mail) (www):
If you're a lawyer thinking of marrying another lawyer, just remember: Never get married in front of a judge. (Demand a jury trial instead.)
1.5.2009 6:17pm
CheckEnclosed (mail):
"Women judges had been around since the 1920s ... and women lawyers had been practicing law for some decades"

EV: Is there some particular reason that you use phrases like "women lawyers" or "woman lawyer" rather than, say "female lawyer(s)"? I have never heard of a man doing job X as a "man job Xer". Since only humans are allowed to become lawyers, "male" and "female" (and "neuter" and "hermaphroditic") would be specific enough, no?
1.5.2009 6:18pm
C Miller (mail) (www):
Its director was Gorge Cukor. And probably my favorite George Cukor story is that he was supposedly fired from directing "Gone With The Wind" because Clark Gable didn't want this “woman's director” throwing the movie to Vivien Leigh.
1.5.2009 6:23pm
Pat C (mail):
Regarding "women lawyers" vs "female lawyers", I did a Google search on the two phrases. Google reported
484,000 hits on "women lawyers"
59,000 hits on "female lawyers"
14,900 hits on "men lawyers" and
14,700 hits on "male lawyers".

So "women lawyers" certainly seems to be the most popular usage. But specifically why that is ...
1.5.2009 6:28pm
MarkField (mail):

Read Jim Lindgren's related post. :-)


I did and I resemble that remark.
1.5.2009 6:28pm
KeithK (mail):

If you're a lawyer thinking of marrying another lawyer, just remember: Never get married in front of a judge. (Demand a jury trial instead.)


The judge isn't issuing a verdict, he's simply declaring the sentence. (Til death do you... oh wait, see Katl L's post.)
1.5.2009 6:28pm
Ernst Blofeld (mail):
"The Bachelor and the Bobbysoxer" has a reveal in the first few minutes when the fearsome Judge Turner that scares the teenager into compliance is shown to be a female.

(Cary Grant is magnificent as always.)
1.5.2009 6:40pm
Bruce Hayden (mail) (www):
The reason lawyers should marry other lawyers is to protect the sanity of the rest of the population
I attribute law school and the practice of law as one of the causes of my divorce. To this day, I still can't give a straight answer to most questions, and have serious commitment issues. The world was no longer black and white, and non-lawyers often fail to understand that what they see that way, lawyers do not. Also, some lawyers seem to enjoy arguing, regardless of the relevance or importance of the subject matter. The laity do not always appreciate these lawyerly traits.
1.5.2009 7:18pm
Hauk (mail):
I'm a lawyer, my wife's a lawyer, my mother-in-law's a lawyer, my brother-in-law's a lawyer, and his wife's a lawyer. Holiday conversations are entertaining for the non-lawyers in the family.
1.5.2009 7:23pm
Toby:
This reasoable outcome of liberal social policy is one of the chief reasons for growing family income inequality. Two well paid profesionals marrying cause an income gap to soar. I'm waiting for the Democratic congress to do somethign about it...
1.5.2009 8:14pm
Fedya (www):
> "The Bachelor and the Bobbysoxer" has a reveal in the first few minutes when the fearsome Judge Turner that scares the teenager into compliance is shown to be a female.

And six years before The Bachelor and the Bobby-Soxer, prosecuting attorney Fred MacMurray fell in love with defendant Barbara Stanwyck in Remember the Night.

Not that Hollywood had any original ideas. Several years earlier in the wonderful Picture-Snatcher (a movie with an interesting freedom of the press angle), James Cagney plays a reformed convict whose love interest is the daughter of the policeman who arrested him!
1.5.2009 10:17pm
CLS (mail) (www):
Q. Why do so many lawyers marry other lawyers?

A. Because no one else will.
1.5.2009 11:09pm
theobromophile (www):
In my small subcommunity (lawyers working in a federal agency in DC), the female lawyers tend to be married to male lawyers, but the male lawyers tend to marry teachers (particularly elementary school teachers).

How can the lady lawyers be married to male lawyers, when the male lawyers are all married to teachers? ;)

As per above, it's not "female lawyer" - it's "lady lawyer." (I say this as a former lady engineer.)

Finally - advice from one of my older male friends is to NOT marry a lawyer. Something about too much competition.
1.6.2009 12:44am
Gatito:
On "woman lawyer" or "lady lawyer" vs. "female lawyer": the same thing happens in other contexts involving professions. People speak of whether in the Catholic church there will be women priests, not female priests.

Why this is I'm not sure, but the term "female" sounds more technical or scientific and is typically used when the body and its structure is more to the fore, as in the phrase "female athlete" and "female patient." When the gender identity is more to the fore, it sounds odd.

Some pressure in the other direction comes from the fact that "female" is an adjective, "woman" a noun. But "female" does not mean "of or pertaining to a woman." It means being of a certain sex, irrespective of what sort of living thing the subject is; it has nothing to do with humanity in particular, whereas "woman" obviously does.
1.6.2009 1:30am
BGates:
"female"...has nothing to do with humanity in particular
-and likewise "female lawyer".
1.6.2009 2:18am
A.C.:
Is anybody else out there the sole lawyer in a family of engineers? How about doctors? I sometimes feel like the only person on the planet who went to law school in a spirit of rebellion against authority.
1.6.2009 8:36am
Bob White (mail):
Lawyer from a family of engineers? That'd be me. It gets a little complicated at times, especially since the general consensus is I should have been an engineer, and there's no reason to go to law school anyway, except to be difficult.
1.6.2009 10:54am
Kenvee:
I'm the sole lawyer in a family of farmers and an accountant. I have a fun time at family gatherings. ;)

I don't know, I've always said I would never marry another lawyer because I don't want another damned lawyer in the family.
1.6.2009 11:55am
snarker:
Re: "People speak of whether in the Catholic church there will be women priests, not female priests."

Why not priestesses? Does any group use that term today?
1.6.2009 2:42pm
GU (mail):
From the movie:

"Lawyers should never marry other lawyers. This is called inbreeding, from which comes idiot children and more lawyers."
1.6.2009 3:50pm
Levin (mail):
Odd that you would mention a female becoming an Assistant US Attorney in 1921, when that was only the second female AUSA. The first, in 1920, was Annette Abbot Adams, who also became the first female appellate court justice in California (and no doubt one of the first in the nation)when she was appointed as the PJ of the Third District Court of Appeal in Sacramento.
1.6.2009 5:33pm

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